IQ testing and my language..

This semester will be a short semester. 6 weeks to complete 2 subjects. All together i have 4 assignment. 2 data collections + report, complete a 3000 words essay, and lastly my IQ testing.
Well, i have not done any of them. How many week i have? May be 2 weeks, may be less than that. I'm not sure.

Nevermind, back to our title, yes, i'm going to say something about tis IQ testing. I was asked to do the test on 2 subjects, one was my coursemate and another on normal subjects. The pervious one i already finished including testing on the subjects, scoring, report writting as well as the presentation of the report. I am facing another problem-- i can't find my normal subject. At first, i try to find see yuan. However his timetable is crush with mine which indicate that he can not come to the college. Then i was thinking of lou mun, but then i realised that he was too far from the Sunway. So i'm still looking for my guiney pig.

Anyway, the IQ test that i will use on the subject is called as WAIS-R. Before studying psychology, i did an IQ testing online. I need to tell you that it is totally different. The WAIS-R is mostly divided into two main part- the verbal subtest and the performance subtest. It was not a paper and pencil test. However i do not like this test because it is using English. As all of you know, my English grammar is quite ok, but my speaking........ Well i can listen, but i do not dare to talk in English even to my coursemate. I can speak when the situation is DANGEROUS! So sometime, i will think that my English speaking will improve much much more if i go to study oversea-- where every sentense i speak have to be in English.

Sad to say, i am facing some troubles in runnning the test. Friends, encourage yourselves to speak more english--it is important.

Decision making!

Human's life is full of moments that require us to make our choices. Not like animals, our choices affect our lives dramtically as we live longer than the animals. When a lion see a deer, what the lion has to choose is to eat or not to eat.Even the lion regrets later or even for the rest of its life, it will be only 10 years to 20 years. However when a human made a decision and regret afterward, it may haunted him/her for 50 years, 70 years or even more.

As for myself, although i am only 21++ years old, there were a lot of mistakes that i had made, the decisions that i regret of. Sad to say, some of the decisions-mistakes will affect me for the rest of my life. I would do anything to make the situations different again. I would do anything to make sure i would not make another wrong decision again. However, life is not that simple. Once you choose, the consequences will follow you for the rest of your lives not matter what you do to change the situation. There are not such thing that once you lost you can start from the beginning. What you can do is only open another path from the path that you had chosen but the past will still be there no matter how hard you try. Some of the people may say :" Why we have to remember the things that you had done wrongly while you already turn to a new leaf?"

Well, we didn't choose to remember, but the human brain is not like a hard disk. You can delete the info that you do not want in hard disk but the human brain is something that is totally different. The harder you try to forget the harder you remember.

I am nearly graduate(1 years ++), i have to make another decision again. I am still wondering. Should i work first or should i continue my study. If i choose to continue my study, which area should i choose? Educational or Clinical? Would i want to be a educational psychologist or a clicical psychologist? If i choose to be clinical psychologist, there will be another choices that i have to make- whether i become a clinical child psychologist or i only want to see adult patients?
Friends, give me some opinions!!

Believe it or not??

性別: 男 生辰:1985年6月28日 1:10

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Stress!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

New semester arrive, my timetable packs like hell. First day in college and i already feel like falling sick. But i have not time for sick! Despite i feel that my whole body is burning, i have to rush to my tuition classes later right after my lessons.Is this stress cause i already feel like crying. I am moving at the speed that i was not expected. I'm still wondering.. wondering that i am moving too fast or too slow. I feel very stressful when i see someone at my age already having a car and i feel even stressful when i knew one of my friends is buying a house. Thanks wai choon for saying something like i am independent but i'm not sure i'm the one that you should admire. I admit that my situation may look stable but i'm someone that is alone in this city, struggling for my dreams, alway comparing to someone that i should not compare. I am just another pathetic person that wondering in this city