Once Rubbish, Alway Rubbish!!!

In order to become gentlemen, we study the ways a gentleman behave, the ways he talks, and so on. However, what is the definition of a gentleman?? Then we start to imagine a man that always smile, a man that opens doors for lady, a man that talk politely... all of these is what we can see form the outside. But what if the man that smile is actually thinking :" haha, some1 is getting into my trap!". What if the man that open the doors is actually thinking :" Welcome to the hell!" and the man talk politely is only want to have sex. Then you will say how rude.. Now here is the real case.. students passed up their moral study assignment( For all of you that do not know, It is 1 of the LAN subjects for private University, every student have to pass the 3 LAN subject in order to get the certificate. In the Moral Study, students have to visit to home and passed the report)... Below is one of the students' personal feeling..


Hugging, something which that is nothing extraordinary to us. We hug when we meet an old friend. We hug when we say good bye to other. We also hug when meeting new friends in certain culture. Due to the reason we can get hugging whenever we want since we were small, hugging has became something like ‘Hello’ and ‘Good bye’ in our lives. Therefore we never expect hugging as a need in our lives after we grow up. However, to them, hugging are something they need and something that are lack in their lives. They thirst for hug. They cried for hug from their parents when they were babies. They shouted for hug when they saw parents hugging their children. Even when they grow up, deep inside their heart, their hunger toward hugging never stop. That is what I feel after the visit to the home. They may not have the money to buy beautiful clothes but they do not need to worry about clothes as someone will donate to them. They may not have the money to buy food but they have their three meals a day. However hugging is something that they thirst for. That is what I felt during my visit. During my visit, one of the boys asked me for hugging. I felt like nothing as we used to hug our friends. However the moment I hug him, two other boy came over and asking me for the same thing, before I answered them, they already took their action- pushing each other in order to be hug. The incidents happened until the moment we leaved. In my heart, I knew they were not mischievous, they only want to have our attention, and they want to be loved just like all of us.


Nice isn't it...however here is the real personal thinking....
Walau, the situation here is not as bad as you all think leh. They eat 3 meal per day without worrying leh. They even have free tuition classes. But some of the kids, i really felt like holding an AK-47 and shotting them to death. I thought they only wanted a hug, but 3 of them climbing all around, making me having difficulty in breathing. Biadah!!!!!!!!!!!!

So do the Moral study or the Moral values work out???Once Rubbish, Always Rubbish!!